Secrets of Sucessful Living

Here are some simple, but not always easy, lessons to learn in life.

A. To Become More Likeable:

   1. Look and act friendly-smile.
   2. Become a good listener.
   3. Show interest in others.
   4. Be truthful, keep your word.
   5. Avoid making fun of others.
   6. Be humble, avoid bragging.
   7. Avoid violent expression.
   8. Be dependable, loyal and on time.
   9. Pay sincere compliments.
  10. Be the friend, you would want.

B. To Get Along With Family:

   1. Be courteous, respect mom & dad.
   2. Avoid arguing when angry.
   3. Be kind and considerate of others.
   4. See things through parent's eyes.
   5. When you are wrong, admit it.
   6. Try to do all family chores on time.
   7. Listen to parents, be truthful and --honest, don't steal, cheat or lie.

C. Personal Hygiene:

   1. Bathe and change clothes daily.
   2. Comb or brush hair, as needed.
   3. Brush teeth 2-3 times a day.
   4. Dress and keep yourself neat.
   5. Avoid speaking foul language!

D. Conversational Magic:

   1. Ask open ended questions such as:
      Who, What, When, Where, Which & How.
   2. Avoid yes or no questions.

E. Problem Solving:

   1. Write down the problem.
   2. List causes of the conflict.
   3. List possible solutions, and pray. -- It can be as simple as, "Please help me..."
   4. Then, list action steps.

G. Stand Up For Yourself:

   1. Ask for help, when needed.
   2. Express your needs & wants.
   3. Be polite; but believe in yourself.
   4. If it feels wrong, walk away.
   5. You are special; you are you!